A couple weeks ago, I came across a Vine of some crazy woman screaming and twerking over her new weave. A few days later I was offered the chance to mean this dick slanging, new weave having chick better known as big dick bitch TS Madison. It was like all the stars had aligned.
It’s time to update your sex playlist with some banging bass lines, epic guitar solos and those make-my-panty-wet-love/lust-songs. With its beat matching pulsating pleasure between your legs, the OhMiBod Better Than Chocolate: Music Edition will have you singing out pleasure between lyrics. That is if you are even able to remember them.
I am a swinger and a polyamorist. Wait, can I be both? Aren’t we supposed to be one or the other? For many people in swinging and/or polyamory, these are always the questions we ask. So what is a swinger and what is a polyamorist? Good question! Read More
When I want to get really dirty, I’ve got to make sure to play with my backdoor. With its sleek design high quality, the Tantus Juice Plug is a welcome addition in my toy box and backdoor. Read More
A one night stand is (or should be) a simple agreement to use each other’s bodies for pleasure. This once handy tool for sexual gratification and exploration is often soiled by insecurities and performance anxiety. If your one night stands aren’t what they used to be, these guidelines will help get them back on track. Read More
This is a (maybe) sad day in the sexual health world. According to a new report on Mother Jones, the morning-after pill is not effect at all for women over 176lbs and dramatically loses effectiveness in women over 166lbs. This news comes after HRA Pharma the French manufacturer of Norlevo, a European emergency contraceptive, updated their packaging to reflect these limits. Read More
I don’t know much about polyamory; like most people, I grew up in a pretty monogamous world and I found the idea of poly relationships perplexing. Natuarlly, I had a ton of questions about it. So, I went on a trek into the unknown to figure out, what’s polyamory really about? Read More
Non-monogamy is an awesome option to the traditional relationship set up. Unfortunately, it’s often brought up as a desperate effort to save a zombified relationship. Let’s get this straight right now: non-monogamy won’t save your relationship, but it could. Read More
One of the biggest obstacles to taking full advantage of an open relationship is actually finding someone who’s cool with your arrangement. To help you find your unicorn, sex and dating sites will help, but only if you use them effectively. If you’re like most newbies, you’re probably making one of these three big mistakes. Read More
Holistic sex and relationship counselor Elaine Miles recently declared that she was never going to have a monogamous relationship again. Of course, I had to know why.
In this episode of Let’s Talk About Sex we sit down with Elaine to talk about why she’s done with monogamy, the benefits of opening your relationship and why humans are all a bunch of sluts Read More
Ever since I was a kid, I have loved pop divas. The day after Britney Spears debuted “I’m a Slave 4 U” on the 2001 MTV VMAs, I was in my basement for like 10 hours with my best friend learning all the choreography. Being free to enjoy that facet of my personality is one of the most fun parts about being a gay guy. Having to deal with fellow gays who feel the need to make fun of my passion is one of the least. Read More
Ever since checking out Courtney Troubles’ Hard Femme: Lesbian Curves 2, I’ve had a crush on Betty Blac. Seeing a plus size Black queer woman in porn was a fangirl moment for me. So, of course, when I set out to review an episode of porn series Crash Pad Series, I went straight to Betty’s video with another porn crush Kitty Stryker. I was not disappointed. Kitty describes this episode as the beginning of her porno romance with Betty. Read More
I really fucking love hip hop and I also really fucking love sex positivity. If you think the two don’t mix, you’re wrong; from Salt N Pepa’s “Let’s Talk About Sex,” to Akinyele’s “Put it in your Mouth,” hip hop is always bringing sex positivity and liberation to the masses. These days, it’s artists like Kanye West and Drake carrying the torch and promoting ethical non-monogamy, sexual agency and sex positivity. Here are some of the most outspoken. Read More
When it comes to relationships, most of the time, people simply fall into the Sarlacc pit of monogamy by default. As a proud whore, the happily (monogamous) ever after ideal has never been my romantic goal. In my eyes, the best part of sex – and life, in general – is getting to experience all the variety it has to offer and it’d be stupid for me choose to love in any other way. Read More
I recently started dating a poly and kinky woman (T). She is married to her Dominant. They also have a live-in BDSM slave who is owned and collared like myself, but my relationship with T isn’t kinky. In fact, we’re careful to keep our relationship deliberately vanilla. Well, as vanilla as strap-ons and hair pulling can be. Why? Because of boundaries, my darling readers.