Even in the year 2013, I still emails from people complaining that their partner won’t give them oral sex. So, it’s about time that I make this clear and put the topic to rest. If you are not willing to give your partner oral sex, you deserve to be dumped… probably.
I’ve said it before and I’ll say it here, sex is just sex. Yes, I know we like to put all these measures and values and meanings to different kinds of sex. But at the end of the day it’s just sex. If you’re having sex, why not just have sex?
Yes, we all have preferences and your partner should help you explore them in GGG way. But there are certain things that are just expected and oral is one of them; it’s as standard as the wheels on a car.
I mean, you don’t have to do it at every sexual encounter and it doesn’t have to be a huge part of the sex. But – at the very least – you should at least be willing shove your face into their crotch at some point. I really don’t know why you wouldn’t, it’s great!
“Giving head is demeaning to women”
Shut up, I didn’t see you complaining when he went down on you. Oh, wait… I get it, it’s only demeaning when you’re not the one quivering in pleasure. Also, how hetero-normative of you to forget that there are plenty of guys who’ve had a penis in their mouth at some point.
Let me get this straight, you eat the preserved flesh of dead animals, the breast milk of cows and unfertilized chicken ova but you won’t sit down at a buffet of willing vagina? That makes SO much sense.
“Well, it tastes funny”
Beer tastes like flaming bile – until you get used to it – but you’ve got a 12-pack in the fridge. Genitals are an acquired taste. Suck it up.
I think that’s the real lesson here, “Suck it up.” To put it more simply, stop being a selfish prick. In sex, sometimes you have to do the things you don’t necessarily want to do to make your partner happy.
All that being said, there are some totally legit reasons why you might not want to give oral sex. Sexual abuse and bad hygiene come to mind. If your issue is solvable, work it out with your partner. If it’s not, at least say something. Otherwise, your partner will be justified in trading you in for a different model.
Holistic sex and relationship counselor Elaine Miles recently declared that she was never going to have a monogamous relationship again. Of course, I had to know why.
In this episode of Let’s Talk About Sex we sit down with Elaine to talk about why she’s done with monogamy, the benefits of opening your relationship and why humans are all a bunch of sluts
People think deep-throating cock is some mystical skill that only some can master. In reality, giving great deep throat blow jobs comes down to: wanting it, knowing what positions works, breathing, lubrication and practice. With the video above and some expanded tips below, we’ve got all the basics you need to know about giving a stellar deep-throat blow job.
People like to talk a lot about consent and what that means in terms of sexual assault. Yet people rarely discuss consent and what that means in terms of sexual attraction. Yeah, consent is permission but it’s also the manifestation of sexual desire and the heat of passion, which is why consent is so damn sexy.
Guys, you know that moment when you’re about to get it in, your horny as all hell but your dick is just not cooperating. No matter how long they suck, tug and tease, the old bitch can’t even muster a half salute. A bout of ED is big deal and can kill your sexual confidence but should it? I don’t think so.
Because of the way people like me tend to talk about anal sex, a lot of people think it’s some overwrought affair. Yeah, it’s a bit more complicated than vaginal or oral sex. But, truth be told, you really only need three things to have stellar anal sex: patience, lube and a sunny disposition. Easy, breezy, beautiful: Anal Whore.
Now, we already know how I feel about anal sex. If you love anal as much as I do, then you want to make sure your booty is always ready to go. These advanced anal hygiene tips will do just that.