I think cigarettes are sexy. Not the cigarette itself, but the smell of cigarette smoke. Whenever I’m with a guy who smokes I get really turned on, but there’s a problem. I have asthma and if I’m ever around a guy soon after he’s smoked, I have a hard time breathing. How can I balance my love of that sexy smoky smell with the desire not to die? Lol

F/22/Hetero-flexible

The first thing I would suggest is to stay far away from cigarette smoke. Breathing is good for most living things and you don’t want to be forced to stop doing that for an orgasm. I would also suggest that you see a doctor; there may be something that you can do to temper your body’s reaction.

I tried searching for a cigarette scented candle or incense, but only came up with way to remove the smell.

Maybe you could have someone who smokes keep a few garments at their home for few weeks. Let them soak up the smoke smell and then have your dates wear them or use them as masturbatory fodder. Hopefully being that removed from the smoke itself will be enough to prevent a respiratory attack.

Other than that I’m afraid you’re out of luck. Sorry.

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